I have had my own fair share of relationships. And I just found out that every guy I have dated, I have said 'I love you' to him. I don't know if that makes me a liar. Since I really have not come around to understanding what love is.
The bibles definition of love is absolutely out of this world. Love is not jealous? Really? Like seriously?
Let's just forget about that and focus on the love that is in this world.
What really is love? Is it that period when you feel butterflies in your belly anytime you think of him. Or when you make really stupid decisions because of him.
Abi is love when you refuse to call, even though you are dying to hear his voice, so you would know if he would call first.
Those periods when you skip classes, appointments, girls night outs. Can that be counted as being in love.
Is love when you have the strongest urge to touch him, or have skin contact with him.
Is love that tickling at the back of your ear, or the moisture between your legs( abi we call that one lust, but is it not part of love? Can there be 'love' without lust?)
Or is love, deciding to spend your entire life with someone, because the person is easy to live with, or is available, or is 'good husband, or wife material'.
Or is love a scam, a grandiose word people use to generally refer to attraction to the opposite sex?
That feeling when you can't let go of someone because you have been together for so long, and you can't imagine life without him even though you know letting him go might make you happier. Can you call that attachment you feel for him love? Even if sometimes you think you can do better.
Really I don't know what love means. But I know that I have felt that flush of beauty, and excitement. I have felt that heart cramping they call heart break. I have felt that sickness that leaves you weak, they call crush. I have felt that addiction-like-feeling called obsession. And all these feelings pass. That moment it feels like I would never get over it it. It seems like the feeling would stick with me forever. Like I would choke in the shocking emotions they bring. But, like every other crazy obsessions in my life they all pass. Yet, I heard love dies hard or doesn't even die at all.
Would you say am inexperienced, or can you relate to this. Can I say that truly love is a phenomena that man created to give hope to that hopelessly needy part of us that needs someone to lean on.
Please, What is love?
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